The myth of confidence People often assume that stepping onto a stage comes from confidence. That speakers are born ready, fearless and polished, with steady hands and calm hearts. The truth is far less glamorous. Confidence is usually not the starting point. Fear is. Most people step onto a stage carrying doubt with them. Fear of judgement. Fear of saying the wrong thing. Fear of being seen too clearly. Courage does not replace those fears. It exists alongside them. When sil