There is a kind of resilience no one prepares you for. Starting again. Not the kind where you are excited and full of fresh ideas. The kind where something has fallen apart, shifted, or been taken from you, and you are left standing there thinking, now what. This version of starting again is not inspiring at first. It is uncomfortable. It is uncertain. It can feel unfair. But it is also where some of your greatest strength is built. Starting again often comes without warning