This is one of the hardest parts of growth that no one really talks about. Sometimes, as you heal, evolve, and become more self aware, your relationships change. Not because anyone is necessarily bad. Not because there was a big fight. But because you are no longer the same version of yourself that the relationship was built around. And that can feel incredibly uncomfortable. Growth changes relationship dynamics When you start setting boundaries, speaking up, valuing yourself

This gets mislabelled all the time. You tell yourself you are being lazy. You think you have lost your drive. You wonder why you cannot seem to get anything done. But most of the time, that is not what is actually going on. You are not lazy. You are overwhelmed. When everything feels like too much Overwhelm does not always look dramatic. It can look like staring at a simple task and not starting. It can look like putting things off you know matter. It can look like scrolling,